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Even the best long-term relationships aren't immune to the occasional romantic lull. I mean, think about it logically. If you're spending years and years and years with one person, the odds of every single day being a perfect 10 on the love-o-meter aren't too high. What makes a couple truly strong is the ability to move past the lulls and reignite that same flame they had on day one. That being said, knowing how to keep the passion alive in a relationship isn't necessarily a skill that comes naturally to all of us. So, for those of you wondering how to get the spark going again, I come bearing some extremely valuable advice.
In a recent Reddit AskWomen thread, ladies in long-term relationships shared their best tips for keeping the passion alive. The important thing to note here is that everyone's relationship has off-days!
Use these Redditors' experiences as your own personal inspiration the next time your relationship isn't feeling like a By Candice Jalili. Image by Bonninstudio, Stocksy. Never Stop Making Romantic Gestures. He slaps me on the ass sometimes, so I guess you could say we're going strong.
For real though, he is the sweetest guy. We've been together almost 7 years, engaged almost 2, and he loves romance. He buys me flowers, takes me out for dinner. He's very affectionate and loves to cuddle. He tells me he loves me more than I can count, including every morning when we wake up and every night before we go to sleep. He tells me he's proud of me all the time and although we're not hyperactive sexually at the moment stressful life circumstanceswhen we do have sex it's pretty frickin' mind blowing. Yeah we do romantic things every now and again, we aren't Passionate partner wanted most romantic couple though.
He bought me flowers last month because I was sad and he wanted to cheer me up; he's just sweet. We try and have a 'date night' once a month, not just going out for dinner but going to the beach, to a nature reserve. We still cuddle and have regular sex. We kiss every day, and I insist on good morning and goodbye kisses. We do passionately kiss, and that tends to be when we are starting to fool around.
Sometimes it's just nice to have a cheeky snog though isnt it really. We sleep naked and spoon every night, I just feel very intimate when we are doing this. We just never stopped doing things intended to show or love and appreciation for each other. We've been together more than 13 years and are still that couple that holds hands, sits side-by-side, enjoys being together, and is demonstratively loving towards each other. It's just a natural part of our relationship.
Now - these things may not be what looks like traditional romance to others. Everyone has their own idea of what that is. For us, though, it definitely works. Keep Saying "I Love You". We've never been "romantically inclined" in the traditional sense. My idea of a romantic surprise is him buying crisps or other stuff I like to put in my mouth on his way home without me asking for it. Passionate kisses? Only during foreplay, much to my detriment. I love kissing, Passionate partner wanted love to make out more and just leave it at that. He's not really interested in that because he associates it with sex.
Sweet cuddles, them I get in abundance. We tell each other that we love one another often. And kiss when he gets home, and when one of us goes to bed we rarely go to bed at the same time. I don't know how we managed to keep it this way. We just kept doing what we've always done?
Except for sex. That frequency has gone down substantially. Been together 12 years this year. We definitely still have passionate make outs and sweet cuddles. Had both yesterday in fact. You just keep dating your partner. You fall in love with your partner over and over again. My bf is such a romantic. When you really love someone, you want them to be happy.
You have to actively keep the romance alive in long term relationships, and that takes two. We always Passionate partner wanted and kiss goodbye in the morning. Random cuddles, hugs, and slow dances in the kitchen. Still passionate and find the other sexy. We still hit on each other. We leave cute notes where the other will find them. Figure Out Your Love Languages. It takes work and communication. Right now my love language is a lot of attention and his is me surprising him with things.
Five years ago mine was full on candle lit romance and his was me playing video games with him. People change, which is why communication is so important. Yes, yes, and yes. We went through a seriously rough patch that lasted about 3 years. I truly appreciate her and she truly appreciates me. Communicate Your Needs And Desires. We never did romantic surprises like, roses and champagne. The last one was to a snow cone hut that makes snow cones that look like gnomes. Around six years now.
Neither him or me are into surprises, so that doesn't happen, but we often hold hands, brush each other when we walk past, and we cuddle and kiss a lot. If anything it's increased now that we live together. He'll try to hold my hand whenever we're sitting down or lying down Passionate partner wanted. It has never stopped. Different genders. Yes, all the time. He rubs my back every night.
I wake him up the same way. Last night he did one of my chores to surprise me, and this morning I packed his lunch because I saw he forgot. We talk sweet to each other every day. Together almost 8 years. Live together. He still opens all my doors for me when we are out. Brings me little gifts. Asks me on dates we went ax throwing the other weekend!!!! Cooks for me often. Brings me coffee in bed.
We make it a point to be physically affectionate with one another. Keep the comfort and passion alive. It makes a big difference. We both make it a point to do things for each other that mean the most to us. Our communication is amazing thankfully. My husband and I have been together for almost 8 years. I still get excited to spend time with him. We are in the same industry but have separate interests.
We talk positively about each other. Most of all, we feel SO lucky to have each other. That gratitude goes a long way. Het couple. Together 6. Married for 1. He still squeezes my derriere when I walk by.
Whistles when I change into my clothes or night gown. Kisses me passionately - which STILL gets me going and has this thing, when he has a bad day, he hugs me. We keep it alive. We try to speak each others love language every single day.
We enjoy filling each others love tanks My husband and I are soon going to celebrate our 42 or 43rd anniversary I'm really, really bad with time. It could even be our 44th coming up, haha. Things are still so awesome between us. There were "dry" years, of course.
No one in the midst of menopause and hot flashes is too interested in getting all sexy. But those years pass. Things do change as we age Libedo weakens as we get older, so I now get a little testosterone pellet inserted into my butt cheek twice a year.
Oh my gosh, it's like being 16 again. Only better, because now we've got years of intimacy between us, we've got this "us" that we choose every day. Two little remarks for a life filled with intimacy, and you've heard them before: Sexual desire begins in the brain. My gyn says the brain is the largest sexual organ for both sexes. So do whatever it takes to remain on each other's team thought wise.
There are days I have to tamp down thoughts of how irritated I am that he left the closet door open. I make the choice to close the door and focus on something that reminds me that I love this man.Passionate partner wanted
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